I found a quote last night that I posted on my facebook page,
"Thank you for letting me talk and letting me cry. Thank you for cheerful hellos and tearful goodbyes. Thank you for asking questions and saying her name. Thank you for not understanding, but sharing my pain."
- Jacqueline M. SavageauI had a lot of people comment on how much they liked the quote. But do they really hear the words? Do they understand how much I need that? I have to admit I have VERY few people (maybe two) that even mention Hazel anymore. It breaks my heart, I fear her being forgotten.....
If you know another Angel Mama, call her ask her how she is doing. Ask her about her angel, what is she doing right now to remember her/ him. Let her know in some way that you haven't forgotten, send a note, a card something that says that you remember. It will mean the world to her, I promise.
I have a sick little boy who is in need of some cuddling so off to bed I go...
Goodnight, Meagan
Dear Meagan, I was googling my name and found your blog. It has been 17 years since I wrote that poem after the loss of my daughter Amanda Leigh. My heart breaks for you and your precious Hazel. You have such a long road ahead of you, but please know that time will never tarnish your memories for your daughter. The love will remain with you always and she will always be a part of you. But the deep, gut-wrenching pain will soften in time, so that the memories will become precious to you forever.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing my poem and bringing my daughter's memory back to me tonight - it's so nice to know her life is still touching others. May Hazel's memories remain with you always.
Much love and gentleness,
Jacque Savageau